Why would a man with erectile dysfunction NOT want to talk to his Dr about it?
He is 48 I am 37
My husband and I have had relations 6 times in the last 25 months. It doesn’t bother him.
I need intemacy.. It doesnt all have to be about sex. I miss being touched in general. It doesnt have to be intercourse.. but it would be nice to get some attention aside from the gropes when he does get in “the mood”.
What is his problem?
I have even had ED info mailed to him to no avail. sigh
Yes I have been direct with him, he says he doesnt want the Dr to think he is a hypocondriac.
I dont want to use toys.. I want to be with my husband. Toys dont touch or kiss back.
I feel lonely, we dont even touch when we go to bed together.
No I’m not ugly, I see guys looking at me at stop lights. I was in Gatlinburg with some girl friends 2 wks ago and was invited back to a hotel for a 3 way! By 2 total strangers! Uhm… no thanx, not looking for that! But it was nice to be asked! lol
Thank you for the spelling correction! 
Chosen Answer:
ED in your situation could be very normal, since he is older he may feel that he is no longer man enough while the real problem is just in his head
I am in my 50′s and I take Cialis when I know my head is still working on issues from work or about my kids, all these drugs do is make it easier to get hard (you can read about them at the pharmacy site below)
someone else suggested that you talk to his doctor, that might be a solution
if his problem is anxiety then just a pill or 2 might bring him back to normal and he can easily get a few samples from his doctor
dont give up yet, but you may have to scare him into talking to his doctor
by: Bob S
on: 25th November 07