I’m 26 years old an IT professional, healthy male with no smoking habits. About 7-8 years ago, I got a trauma that i can’t get an erection. it was so strong that even after hearing from doctors that there is nothing to worry, i assumed that i can’t have a Normal sex anymore in my life. Because of which i started avoiding girls.
I get a Normal erection (can maintain it for the duration needed) when i watch movies(sitting on chair), but i have a trauma like i can’t get an erection when i am standing. so i assumed that in my mind and i never try to get a erection while standing. if i try to do that sometime and if i fail then that gives me another depression for days. in net i feel (believe) that i have some problem and i can’t satisfy a girl.
Its funny, i hear from my friends that they see hot dreams like b anging the hottest girl, but since i believe i can’t, i haven’t had such dreams for 7-8 years.
I started calling a hooker for the night after being failed from two girls because of my low confidence. i can only do in missionary position, if i try any other position i just lose my erection and i want to do it fast, so that i can maintain it for the duration needed.
this whole has reduced my confidence to so low that i feel that every other man is better than me. i find it difficult to even talk eyes to eyes with a person. since this problem started i have very fewer friends.
i tried everything that i could, to get me out from this problem. i have showed myself to a sexual medicine expert. he has done the related tests like Penile Doppler, sugar, Treadmill test and all tests were normal. He just recommended me Cialis tablets to eat on a regular basis once in 2 days fr 3 months. when i went after three months he continued the same medicine for another 3 months. the tablets too didn’t help me much. actually i could not talk confidently even to a doctor, and i could not explain him all the problem.
Since i can get a normal erection while sitting but not in standing or any other position, it makes me feel that it is pure psychological. but i am not able to overcome that trauma which i have.
Please help me, i cant think what i should do now. i just want to live a normal life like any other person with normal confidence. what i should do to boost my confidence.
ya should consider seeing a sex theripist or at least try another doctor.
viagra,cialis won’t help muchwhen your by yourself ya need something to arouse yourself as well the fact that it does work sitting makes me believe it is a psychological problem as well
i wish ya the best of luck
by: terry v
on: 5th January 13